Have you ever realize sometimes, you continuously change. Today, you are a gentle person, yesterday you had a bad temper, and tomorrow, you just keeps silent and seems uninterested to daily chore. The most uncomfortable thing is when you realize that unconsciously you are not treating your close family or friend as good as the others.. You want to show your care, but you acted the opposite. You become more sensitive than usual.
Here are some tips, to show your care and love to someone close but you always fail to keep on being nice and gentle every single day. I intentionally to share this as to apply to my mom and sisters..
1. Wake Every Morning with An Appreciation for The Other Person and before you're going for bed.
Being grateful for the people and things in our lives is one of the most simple ways to achieve a sense of daily happiness. You don’t have to engage in huge displays of affection. Just as simple as saying "thank you" or "loving you" is enough to show your gratitude. It will cost a little bit uncomfortable and shyness but you have to know that, your mother will be touched that you think of her as how much she does.
2. Sharing is Caring.
3. Do Something Unexpected.
4. Apologize Often, Even If You’re Not Wrong.
5. Refuse to Argue and Pick Your Battles.
There is nothing to be ashamed of if you hold a white flag and ask not to start any argument because to argue is a choice you made. By postponing the discussion, will actually helps to settle down a conflict. Don't be too impatient to settle everything at that time. You may worsen the situation or ended up having a fight.
6. Do It, Don’t Say It.
6 Ways to Show You Care
By John M. Grohol, PSYD
Founder & Editor-in-Chief